Without a doubt, one of the Reformed doctrines which evangelical and fundamentalist Christians find most scandalous is the doctrine of definite, personal or limited atonement. This rejection happens, in part, because the Reformed teaching is not always well understood. Sometimes the misunderstandings have been our fault for not explaining and presenting this teaching well.
Episode 5 of the Heidelcast tries to address some of these objections and to explain why one would want to say that Jesus died for his people rather than for everyone who ever lived:
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