Right And Wrong Reasons For Leaving Your Local Church

In recent years, I have noticed the growing trend of people who leave their local church without any reflection as to whether their departure is a sinful one. To be sure, there are legitimate reasons to leave a local church. That’s what makes this article difficult to write; it’s a difficult task to get to the motivations of why people do what they do.

As a pastor, I have always believed that people should never feel forced to stay in a church where they are struggling. Departures may come for a variety of different reasons. Church leadership has to guard itself from cult-like behavior in seeking to put straightjackets on their members. I cannot imagine a more oppressing church environment than one that makes its members feel forced to stay in membership because the threat of discipline hangs over their heard for departure. This creates a bunch of joyless servants in Christ’s kingdom and has a deadening effect on the whole congregation.

A wise elder once compared a disgruntled churchgoer to a plant that did not grow in his kitchen window. He cared for that plant, watered that plant, faithfully tended to the plant, but it always looked tattered and wilted. One day the next-door neighbor offered to take the plant with the hopes that it would do well and the man, rather reluctantly, offered the plant to the neighbor. After a short time, the neighbor celebrated how well the plant was doing; it was vibrant, green, and producing new leaves. I’ve had to submit to this truth of Christian ministry more than a few times, humbling my own pride and recognizing that sometimes, though people leave for foolish reasons, they may flourish well elsewhere. That’s ultimately what we want for the sheep anyway. Read more»

Chris Gordon | “Right and Wrong Reasons for Leaving Your Local Church” | AGR | August 5, 2021


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